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Song Lyrics to Save the Doomed "Nice Guy
So, I'm stuck in the truck the other day, in a hellacious traffic jam. I decide to crank up the radio when I hear a song I haven't heard played in a while called Everything You Want (by Vertical Horizon) come on the air. I know all the lyrics to the song so I'm singing along to the main verses that say "He's everything you want, he's everything you need but he means nothing to you and you don't know why" and BOOM -- it hits me.
This is a truly amazing song if you can stop and think about what the words are really saying. The song is describing the lifelong plight of the "nice guy". It's surprising how many nice guys have problems hooking up with women. They can't get a date because of the simple fact that they are TOO nice.
Let me lay it out for you in one simple sentence. Nice guys do not get the girls because they are too nice, which means the women do not feel attraction for them. When they look at these men they see a friend and nothing more.
It amazes me how the difficult life of a nice guy was laid out in the Vertical Horizon song. It's true that the nice guy is everything that most women dream of. These men complement women buy them things take them out to dinner and treat them like royalty. But in the end he ends up meaning nothing to the woman.
Instead, she ends up going out with some jock stud muffin who is rude, crude and can barely spell his own name. Why does she go out with him? Because she is attracted to him.
What I am NOT saying is that you should be rude or treat women like crap. What I do want to tell you is that in order to get a date you need to create attraction with a woman from the beginning. You need to create that attraction and fan the flames to keep it going.
So what does a single man do to accomplish this? There are any number of things you can do, but one of my personal favorites is using a little humor combined with roguish behavior (otherwise known as Cocky Comedy). In other words - you need to bust her balls and keep her on her toes at all times. She needs to NOT know what you might do next in order to keep her from being able to tell if her charms are working on you.
Most guys don't get it revealing your level of attraction to a woman in the beginning of your relationship is the perfect way to kill the attraction. The typical nice guy is going to let her know that by treating her like a diamond. The dumb jock, on the other hand, is not going to reveal this to her and his unfeigned "I don't care" attitude is naturally going to keep her guessing -- and coming back for more.
Keep these words in mind if you're that unlucky nice guy. Keep the lyrics in mind and remember to quit being the man she thinks she wants and start being the man you know she wants. To read more about why bad boys get the girl and nice guys get to go home click below.
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